WHY THE FULFILLMENT OF LONG-STANDING DESIRES MAKES YOU SAD.

Long Standing Desires Makes You Sad.

In young years, a man has so much to worry about that he can hardly allocate time even for recreation. It is often out of the question to devote yourself completely to your favorite cause. It remains only to comfort yourself with the thought that then, in a couple of years, when all urgent matters will be done and enough money will be accumulated, you can do what you want, not what you have to.

And today the editorial board of "Super kakkar!" offers to reflect on what a person needs for happiness, why the understanding of their real desires comes to us in a solid age and how in poetry you can find answers to many important questions.

WHAT IS NEEDED FOR HAPPINESS

The whole life, as long as tanu remembers, consisted of continuous worries. As a child she had to be a good girl and obey her parents in everything. At school she was obliged to please the teachers with her progress to get only A's. At work, she was obliged to work for herself and her unhelpful colleagues. And when the kids came along, there were more responsibilities...

Over time, the children grew up, traveled around the country in search of a better life. But their spouse got seriously ill, and in tanu's life there were no less responsibilities. The woman herself understood that her life is more like an obstacle course. But how to live differently? You can't just leave your loved ones to their fate...

When tanu turned 50, it was like she woke up. "How so? I'm 50 now, most of my life is behind me. "There's not much left. Can we finally live for ourselves?"

Tanu decided it was time to live as she had always dreamed: carefree, rich and bright. She sold one of the apartments and started spending money on good clothes, perfume, trips abroad. In the fridge there was a place for seafood and exotic fruits. The woman tried not to forget anything she had been dreaming about for the last couple of decades.

However, Tanu did not feel happy. Moreover, she felt rather broken and depressed. Moving and flying made her muddy. Dresses intact were hanging in the closet, even the tags were not wanted to be cut. Such coveted luxury turned out to be unacceptable, unnecessary, alien...

That's when Tanu came across a poem by  after which she tried to figure out why the resorts and new outfits spoil her mood.

Finally, the woman realized that those dreams that she considered her own, were just a fairy tale, inspired by the desires of others. Tanu decided to leave the fussy city, where she had already spent most of her life. She bought a summer house, started a small garden and devoted herself to the care that brings her pleasure.

She began to dress discreetly but comfortably. She could be lazy in the morning and let herself sleep longer. She began to discover new literary horizons with surprise and pleasure. And she also began to joyfully mess with her grandchildren, who now spend with her at the cottage almost every holiday. It seems that the woman understood what it takes for her to be completely happy.

Tanu discovered that a rich and carefree life is not hers. But the woman found her own way to enjoy life. She found her own rhythm where she feels comfortable every day. And the elements of luxury that used to seem an essential attribute of happiness, now she was not needed.